Why a Good Marriage Is the Ultimate in Freedom

In a good marriage, you have the freedom to be the best version of yourself. It’s a foundation upon which you can build the rest of your life. This may seem hard to believe, but it’s not the institution of marriage that’s the problem; it’s been a combination of you and your choice of partner. Listen to this Love U Podcast to confirm that, in fact, a good marriage is the most joyous, liberating, strengthening, and freeing opportunity on Earth.
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Congratulations to Beverly and David from Cave City, Kentucky!

If you are lucky enough to get a second chance at true love, don’t waste it. Beverly sure didn’t. She writes: “My husband passed away in August 2013. I was 42 and thought I would never find true love again. In July 2014, I saw an ad for Zoosk on Facebook and decided to sign up.
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How Can a Shy Introvert Become More Approachable?

You and other dating coaches often note that women need to be warm to attract men. I understand how warmth puts people at ease and openness allows for connection to develop. What do you recommend for shy and/or introverted types, especially ones who are abstract thinkers and not immediately relatable to most people?

People often write me off as snobby and aloof when they first meet me. I have made great efforts to reduce the frequency of making this impression, but it still happens. Sometimes it is shyness and being overwhelmed by stimuli around me that makes me go “deer in the headlights”. Other times, I

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How to Stop Getting Jealous When Your Boyfriend Brings Up His Past

My friend Emily Rosen is the CEO of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating. She is also one hell of a poet and storyteller. I was blown away when I read this post of hers on Facebook and asked for her permission to print it here.
In her own eloquent words, Emily advocates for the concept of being accepting, trusting, confident and gracious, instead of leading with fear and insecurity – specifically when you’re dating a man who shares stories of women in his past.
I used to think
that other people loving him
took something away from me
I wanted to be the only one

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A New Definition of Fidelity: Being Radically Present

True fidelity goes beyond keeping sex within marriage.
Steven Kalas, a counselor in Las Vegas, astutely observes that sexual fidelity is not really the hardest task in the world; it’s making an effort to prioritize your relationship when the rest of life gets in the way. Says Kalas:
“Give me a nickel for every time I’ve heard a wife complain about her husband’s mistress, whose name is “Work,” and you and I will go to Maui and retire.
Give me a nickel for every time I’ve heard a husband complain about his wife’s paramour, whose name is “The Kids,” and you and I will buy Maui and retire.”
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Dating the Divorced Guy – an interview with Jonathon Aslay

There aren’t many men who do what I do, but Jonathon Aslay is one of them. He’s a good friend who helps middle-aged divorced women through the dating process. Although, he is one of the sweetest guys in the world, we tussle in the middle of this podcast about what kind of questions you should ask on the first date. It’s juicy stuff and useful to see things from both sides. Lemme know what you think.
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What Do I Do When I Run Into a Guy I’m Seeing While He’s On a Date With Someone Else?

I’m romantically interested in a very good friend and I believe he is interested in me as well but the timing has always been off. When he was single I was not. When I was single he was not. He also travels 2-3 weeks a month for work and last year was barely here. We’ve agreed to date but not sleep together and see where things go. And he’s been spending time in our small town a lot more and we see or speak to each other 2-3 times a week. He’s met one of my sons, he sends his sons my Facebook posts he

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Congratulations to Matthew and Joanne from Derby, Great Britain!

When you feel like you’ve tried everything, the only thing left to do is try something new. Matthew is super glad he tried online dating after being single for year. He writes: “I joined Zoosk in late 2013 after being single for a year to give online dating a try. I found Joanne after searching through a
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