A Good Man Is Hard to Find. Only 35% of Men Are Emotionally Intelligent.

If this was a blog for men, I would spend a whole lot more time talking about how men need to change. But since this is a blog for women, usually my focus is on women’s blind spots, what they can learn, how they can understand men and take responsibility for their piece of all relationships.
Today, we’re going to turn the tables and talk about one thing men really suck at:
De-escalating conflict.
Now, to be clear, there is a lot of complaining/nagging/attacking on the part of the fairer sex – a behavior that Dr. Jamie Turndorf ably outlined in her seminal book, “Kiss Your Fights Goodbye.”

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How to Apologize (and mean it)!

I have a big mouth and have never had an opinion I haven’t voiced. Nonetheless, I am happily married. How is that possible? Well, for one, I have a cool, patient, thick-skinned wife. But the other reason is that I know how to apologize – both frequently and effectively. Apologizing is a vital skill set for anyone who wants to be married. Join me on today’s Love U Podcast to learn how.
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How Can I Determine Which Information on My Dating Profile Is Too Specific?

I’m a 28-year old woman and just like most of your readers, I’ve had good luck in life in general but not so much with men. I hope to meet him and get married within the next 3-5 years and I purchased your FTOO package and followed your advice regarding being specific and telling stories. So, I’ve written an approximately two 200-word essays about me and my ideal partner on Zoosk and I already have men writing to me about the details in my profile which means I probably did it right.
However, a guy wrote to me and told me that I’m writing too

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This is Where Elite Women Go to Find Elite Men

There have never been more ways to meet people – online dating sites, dating apps, social media, Meetups, and the old standards of school, work, church, bars, and parties.
Yet it’s never felt harder to meet someone you want to marry.
At least that’s what I hear from the smart, strong, successful women who make up my client base. They’re not exaggerating. There are 1/3 fewer college educated men compared to college educated women these days. And if you are snobby about your partner having a similar caliber education – as I was, once upon a time – it is increasingly hard to find other people from elite

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Why Women Who Hate Men and Men Who Hate Women are Exactly the Same

Feminists who hate men and MRA/MGOTWs who hate women are two peas in a very angry pod. They both have valid points, but refuse to acknowledge the validity of the other side. Join me on this Love U Podcast, where I try to stake out a middle ground in the war between the sexes. After all, it’s pretty hard to find love if you don’t like the gender you’re trying to love.
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(Special Announcement) A Tragedy Puts Everything in Perspective

After my annual Love U launch, I usually write a message with an apology for the flurry of blog posts, a summary of what I learned, and a promise to give away more free dating advice.
I’m not doing that today. It just doesn’t seem important. Here’s why:
I just got off the phone with my Mom.
She was telling me about her teary conversation with her best friend of 50 years, Leslie.
Ten years ago, Leslie lost her son to a drug overdose.
Last month, Leslie’s daughter attempted suicide.
Leslie is 70. Her ex-husband is deceased, her assets are dwindling, and, to top it off, she had to suffer through

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How Risky Is It to Break the Commitment First Rule and Have Sex?

I’m a 34-year old woman living in New York City, looking for that great love. I get asked on a lot of dates, however, it’s been difficult to find a wonderful, committed relationship after I broke up with my ex of 2 years. I don’t like to have casual sex…so this means I haven’t had sex in a while, and I’m dying over here, Evan!!
I’m currently dating a guy I’m crazy about and really want to sleep with, but I haven’t dared suggest commitment because I know he’s gun shy about a relationship and I don’t want to scare him away. When I give

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You Asked For It, You Got It! New Pricing Option Available for Love U!

Friday I shared a video answering your most common questions you have about Love U. But you’re still on the fence.
You’re busy. You’re tired. You can’t afford it. You don’t know if it will work.
Let’s cut through the bullshit, shall we?
You want to find love.
I help women find love.
You want to understand men.
I’m a man who specializes in helping women to understand men.
You’re busy.
I’m asking you for five minutes a day to participate in Love U.
You’re skeptical.
I’m offering you a 30-day 100% money-back guarantee.
You can’t afford it.
It’s the cost of a Starbucks each day.
You’re not sure it’s worth it.
If I said you could write

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The #1 Reason You’re Not in Love is NOT What You Think

If you know you want to enroll in Love U and get the love you deserve, click here.
If you keep finding reasons not to join Love U – too expensive, too busy, too skeptical, keep reading.
When you’re done reading, your excuses will be gone and you’ll be left with one question:
Do I want to find love or would I rather stay exactly where I am today?
Time is the most precious gift in the world.
There are only 24 hours in a day and you’re asleep for 1/3 of them.
So how are you allocating your time?
How many hours per week do you spend at work?

How many hours

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Everything You Need to Know About Love U in One Place

If you know you want to enroll in Love U and get the love you deserve, click here.
If you are still kicking the tires to know EXACTLY what you receive when you join Love U, keep reading.
Briefly, there are two ways you can learn more about Love U today.
1. Click here to watch a video where I walk you through the course.
2. If you’re not a video person – or don’t want to turn the sound on at work – you can read this email, which is, essentially, a transcript of the video.
So, why is there a Love U? Why is this course different from

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