He Committed to Me After Two Weeks. When Can I Let Down My Guard?

Your advice has helped me navigate modern dating. I figured out the ones who were just in it for sex, I dumped the ones who wouldn’t commit, I learned never to text after a great first date. All that advice definitely made dating easier emotionally.
I recently started dating a new guy. After two weeks, he asked me to be his girlfriend, he deleted his profile, he’s introduced me to his friends. He brought up the talk, he ticks all the boxes.
We both talked it over about how we’re in the right place for a committed relationship, we like one another, and most importantly, we both

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Camille Paglia on Hugh Hefner: Retrograde But Sophisticated

“It’s complicated.”
It may feel wishy-washy and dissatisfying, but often that’s the best way to categorize things that are neither purely good or purely evil.
Such is the legacy of Playboy founder, Hugh Hefner.
“It’s complicated.” Often that’s the best way to categorize things that are neither purely good or purely evil.
With everything that’s been written since his death, it doesn’t seem there’s much left to say. Many have told sad, depraved stories from inside the Playboy Mansion, none of which can be defended. Others point to Hefner’s erudition, timeliness and pioneering of an international lifestyle brand.
Yet the most interesting thing I’ve read about Hefner comes courtesy of Camille Paglia,

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Forgiveness – An Interview with Marcy Neumann

Marcy Neumann is special. Ever since we met this summer, we’ve had a strong connection, although, on the surface, we couldn’t be more different. She’s all energy, reiki, and spirituality. I’m, well, me. But one place we feel strongly is about the power of forgiveness as a means to heal all relationship wounds. Join me for this wonderful conversation with this wonderful woman.
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Why Do Men Not Accept Me and My Flaws When I Fully Accept Them?

One trend in your advice is that men just want someone who accepts them for who they are, loves them, doesn’t nag them, etc. I am someone who does this, for the most part. I have had 4 serious boyfriends in the past. I have never had a problem when my boyfriend goes out with friends, goes on a guy’s trip, works late, watches porn, etc. I try to encourage all these things (and even love watching porn myself). I try to set a very accepting tone in my relationships and I encourage complete freedom and trust from both parties.
I am overall a fun, accepting

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[Video] I’m Crazy. You’re Crazy. Let’s Get Married!

Do you have 19 minutes and 53 seconds?
Good.
You MUST watch this video by Alain de Botton about the nature of love.
I’ve written about de Botton before, with good reason: the man is brilliant, wise, and funny, no matter what his subject matter.
But there’s something special about watching a video in which the author:
Rails against romanticism – destroying the concept of soulmates, destiny and “you just know” feelings.
Pillories the idea that your partner should confirm all your feelings, think you’re perfect, and read your mind.
Points out that we are highly flawed people with few powers of introspection and capacity for change who are dating other highly flawed people

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Why Good Men Were Shocked By The #MeToo Movement

Harvey Weinstein was the tip of the iceberg. After millions of women shared their #MeToo stories of sexual harassment and assault, the world could no longer ignore this pervasive problem. Today, I’m continuing this conversation to ensure that you know that you’re believed, while, at the same time, explaining how good men completely missed the boat on this one.
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Why Do Men Who Don’t Want Anything Serious End Up with Girlfriends?

I’m 31, fit, intelligent, attractive, and I’ve done enough work on myself to know that I’m happy, and that I’m ready for a relationship. Here’s my pattern: I’ll have a great first date with a guy. There’ll be great connection, flirting, maybe a kiss, texts for the next few days, and a second date. But then, he’ll say, ‘I’m not looking for anything serious.’ And I’ve gone both ways – I’ve slept with them (because let’s face it, it’s not just men who love sex!) or I’ve decided to not see them again. If I sleep with them, we’ll maybe have sex a few more

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Why Married Women Get a Raw Deal

I’m a dating coach and author.
My wife is a stay-at-home mom.
I work from 9 am to 5:30 pm.
My wife works from 6:15 am to midnight.
I support the family monetarily.
My wife supports the family in every other way.
I’m writing a piece on my blog right now.
My wife is taking a two-hour nap because she’s so exhausted.
I’m not sure if we have a traditional marriage (because I’m the breadwinner) or a modern marriage (because I work from home and assist with childrearing).
What I do know is that my wife has it MUCH harder than I do. It’s not even close.
What I do know is that my wife has it MUCH harder

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Understanding the male dating timetable

There’s how fast you want to go, how fast he wants to go, and what works best for healthy couples. Those timetables rarely align. In this thought-provoking Love U Podcast, learn how the pace of your relationship may actually determine the success of your relationship.
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How Do I Get Over the Curse of Hot-Ex Boyfriend?

I’ve been reading your blog since my break up and it’s been really helpful in making me realize that my ex wasn’t right for me (he was the one who left me despite me trying to save our relationship). So many other dating articles tell me how to bring back even the coldest man to the loving guy he was at the beginning but I’m not buying into all that anymore. Exes are exes for a reason and we are no longer in contact nor in good terms.
However, I think I’ve been hit with the curse of the hot ex-boyfriend. At times, I panic thinking

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