I have been dating my boyfriend for 13 months. We get along well and up to this point it has been easy.
This past weekend I asked a very specific question about smoking pot which revealed he is a regular smoker. I am shocked and hurt for two reasons. First, I feel deceived because we had conversations early on in our relationship about drug use. Second, I am confused because I don’t smoke myself so can’t relate. I understand this is a personal choice, but I am not sure how to move forward when our values are different on this topic.
He has apologized for not sharing